Marc Dion - Buzz - Public - Muted
Unbelievable. I'm back to a refrigerator box...again! Oh, if only I learned to keep my mouth shut...oh, if only to be seen and not heard. Why...why didn't I listen to them? Don't, never & if - the legacy The legacies passed on to us by those who created us, our fathers and mothers, are filled with superstition and fear. We were taught how to perceive the world around us, how to behave and most...Unbelievable. I'm back to a refrigerator box...again! Oh, if only I learned to keep my mouth shut...oh, if only to be seen and not heard. Why...why didn't I listen to them?

Don't, never & if - the legacy

The legacies passed on to us by those who created us, our fathers and mothers, are filled with superstition and fear. We were taught how to perceive the world around us, how to behave and most importantly, how to avoid. The avoidance I am talking about has its context in the life choices we make that are based on fear and ignorance - personality traits nurtured in the shadows of uncertainty and doubt.
For many of us, it was the first band aid, or that first encounter with the terrifying sound of thunder that was our introduction to a world that didn't seem to like people. For most of us, the legacies we inherited were rules. In my case, there were ten...coincidentally. My parents didn't send an old man up a mountain to get them, either. They made them up.
#1. "Don't do this or that will happen." im free
#2. "If you do that, this will happen." im innocent
#3. "Never let anyone know about your feelings." true
#4. "Never, ever ask for something you need." true
#5. "If you need to feel like you belong, keep it to yourself. If you don't, people will think you need something you don't have. american, religion fight
#6. "If you need a friend, don't disgrace yourself by asking. The only people that ask for friendship don't have it. That is entirely their own fault."
#7. "Wanting is okay. Needing is not okay." ?
#8. "Crying is a sign of weakness. Don't let anyone see you cry - they will think that you are a sissy. Only girls cry." beautiful boys
#9. "If you are not strong, pretend that you are."
#10. "If you are afraid, pretend that you are fearless." im afraid

These irrational and contradictory commandments were fundamental to the legacy.